Comments on: Ask Your Bartender: Relationship Advice http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2006/ask-your-bartender-relationship-advice/ Jeffrey Morgenthaler writes about bartending and mixology from Portland, Oregon Mon, 10 Jun 2013 18:25:19 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Dominik MJ http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2006/ask-your-bartender-relationship-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-710 Dominik MJ Tue, 02 Jan 2007 11:36:42 +0000 http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2006/ask-your-bartender-relationship-advice/#comment-710 I don't see so many problems with your friends - in the last dozen years I got more and more friends out of the same business. And maybe you cannot hang around together every day - but at least you are not isolated... With your better half it is a different story. It is heart driven - and I have and had a lot of difficulties to maintain a relationship and I failed also very often. For me bartending is much more than a job, so it is worth the effort and the disadvantages - not for the money, just for the thing itselfs! It is even more difficult for me, as I am acting internationaly - less money, and you loose the contact to many friends if you change the bar... I don’t see so many problems with your friends – in the last dozen years I got more and more friends out of the same business. And maybe you cannot hang around together every day – but at least you are not isolated…

With your better half it is a different story. It is heart driven – and I have and had a lot of difficulties to maintain a relationship and I failed also very often.

For me bartending is much more than a job, so it is worth the effort and the disadvantages – not for the money, just for the thing itselfs! It is even more difficult for me, as I am acting internationaly – less money, and you loose the contact to many friends if you change the bar…

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