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	<title>Comments on: The Eleventh Myth</title>
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	<description>Jeffrey Morgenthaler is a designer, blogger and mixologist living in Eugene, Oregon</description>
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		<title>By: cocktails and dreams</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-1673</link>
		<dc:creator>cocktails and dreams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Feb 2007 22:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>for me it's not the giving of the free drink, but the asking for the free drink.  it's just bad bad bad etiquite.  i don't mind giving you one if i choose to, but if you ask for it the answer is always no.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>for me it&#8217;s not the giving of the free drink, but the asking for the free drink.  it&#8217;s just bad bad bad etiquite.  i don&#8217;t mind giving you one if i choose to, but if you ask for it the answer is always no.</p>
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		<title>By: Marleigh</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-1050</link>
		<dc:creator>Marleigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2007 23:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who goes to a bar on their birthday without a group of friends (and, often enough, strangers), who are more than willing to buy you a drink?

The only upside to having a bartender do the buying is that they would be less likely to force you to shoot 151 or some other wretchedness, unlike a drunken friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who goes to a bar on their birthday without a group of friends (and, often enough, strangers), who are more than willing to buy you a drink?</p>
<p>The only upside to having a bartender do the buying is that they would be less likely to force you to shoot 151 or some other wretchedness, unlike a drunken friend.</p>
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		<title>By: The Cleaning Lady</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-1044</link>
		<dc:creator>The Cleaning Lady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2007 15:16:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>suspicions such as what? Its a mom n pop operation run by uneducated rednecks. great food, nice atmosphere (usually) and a very bizarr management style, one I've never encountered in all my years in the service industry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>suspicions such as what? Its a mom n pop operation run by uneducated rednecks. great food, nice atmosphere (usually) and a very bizarr management style, one I&#8217;ve never encountered in all my years in the service industry.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeffrey</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-1027</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 22:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would be terribly surprised if you didn't get a drink on such an occasion, my dear delightful hostess.  However, I have always had my suspicions about the establishment you call home...

Amendment to the rule: see above.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would be terribly surprised if you didn&#8217;t get a drink on such an occasion, my dear delightful hostess.  However, I have always had my suspicions about the establishment you call home&#8230;</p>
<p>Amendment to the rule: see above.</p>
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		<title>By: The Cleaning Lady</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-1023</link>
		<dc:creator>The Cleaning Lady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 17:40:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what if you WORK at said bar as a hostess, have your only birthday party in 20 years there (a 13 top on a slow sunday afternoon), clean the bar once a week AND your kid works there? Doesnt that kind of trump the "no freebies" birthday drink/desert rule? Just wondering, because this happend to me yesterday. My family was appalled, I was, however, not suprised at all.
just want to know what the world at large thinks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what if you WORK at said bar as a hostess, have your only birthday party in 20 years there (a 13 top on a slow sunday afternoon), clean the bar once a week AND your kid works there? Doesnt that kind of trump the &#8220;no freebies&#8221; birthday drink/desert rule? Just wondering, because this happend to me yesterday. My family was appalled, I was, however, not suprised at all.<br />
just want to know what the world at large thinks.</p>
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		<title>By: nomikkh</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-940</link>
		<dc:creator>nomikkh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 21:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can't even begin to describe how annoying that is.  Last night I had a customer pouting the whole damn night because I didn't give him a free Electric Iced Tea.  Electric Iced Tea, for gods sakes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t even begin to describe how annoying that is.  Last night I had a customer pouting the whole damn night because I didn&#8217;t give him a free Electric Iced Tea.  Electric Iced Tea, for gods sakes.</p>
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		<title>By: Waitress</title>
		<link>http://www.jeffreymorgenthaler.com/2007/the-eleventh-myth/#comment-825</link>
		<dc:creator>Waitress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jan 2007 14:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my GAWD, Jeff. Yes.  Very much yes. I can't begin to tell you how many times I'm either making a drink or dropping it off at the table only to be told "it's my birthday."  I always defer to the tried and true "state law doesn't allow us to give alcohol away for free," but even then it's a rather annoying experince.

Love your writing. love it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my GAWD, Jeff. Yes.  Very much yes. I can&#8217;t begin to tell you how many times I&#8217;m either making a drink or dropping it off at the table only to be told &#8220;it&#8217;s my birthday.&#8221;  I always defer to the tried and true &#8220;state law doesn&#8217;t allow us to give alcohol away for free,&#8221; but even then it&#8217;s a rather annoying experince.</p>
<p>Love your writing. love it.</p>
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